I've been intending to write this for sooo long- the subject of SEX has filled libraries worth of bookshelves with everyone's different opinions on it. Here is mine.
It's basic really.
We are energy. We are Atoms and Electrons Dancing. Everything around you is a different dance of energy.
As I reach out my hand and touch the arm of another- on a microscopic level, we have literally merged and given and received one another's rhythm... atoms.
Have you ever walked into the energy field of another person or into a room where the energy was very different than yours and it hits you like a wall of bricks?
An example would be coming home from a hard day at work to a SURPRISE party OR.... a great evening with friends into a house with an angry parent sitting on the couch? Yep. Energy fields.
The trick in life is to be so clear about YOUR rhythm and "BEING" that instead of picking up jumbled energy from a myriad of sources... you are solid and clear about YOURS. Your dance, your essence, your I Am that I Am.
Here's where SEX comes in....
The powerful and amazing experience of sharing your body and energy field in a mutually vulnerable and empowering way is possibly one of the BEST experiences on Earth. Sex is an AWESOME way to be perfectly IN THE MOMENT in a balanced dance of GIVE and RECEIVE.
Your cells, your physical body, your emotions, EVERYTHING is heightened and engaged and at the very limits of it's CREATION capabilities.
When the scriptures have said "They became One." it was literal. You are merging the dances, the energies, the rhythms. The auras of the people engaged are intertwined like serpents and explosions of light. LITERALLY you begin to sense, to feel one another's emotions, inner beings... we hear the other's song... we KNOW the movement of one another's dance.
For WOMEN, especially (partly because of the reality of our physical body and partly because we tend to be more in touch with our intuitive side) we are RECEIVERS of the energy and can leave a sexual experience "FEELING" the emotions and thoughts of our partner for days after. TRULY we are bonded and connected.
When I consider SEX from an ENERGY view... soooo much shifts in my perception of what the world is projecting onto us through media.
Also, when the words being "PURE" are used to describe a woman.. it's easier to know the truth about it... it's not about being wrong or right... but POWERFULLY self-aware and clear, KNOWING your SONG- knowing YOUR Dance.
Life is about REALIZATION of SELF LOVE and WHO we ARE and WHAT we came here to get and give on this planet....
SEX is by far one of the most spectacular gifts of living in the 3rd Dimension... but deserves to be treated with severe care and consciousness... (not that you can't go have crazy fun and wild sex...)
what I mean is KNOW that we are rhythms- we are energy... and just like drops of coloring in a glass of water... every sexual encounter and merging of energy shifts us.
We LINK to another human being. It's not good or bad, a person who uses your body hasn't forever tainted you... what I am saying is that it is IMPERATIVE to KNOW YOU before you play with these energies.
When you Link and merge... EVERYTHING unites... not just the "NICE" parts of a person... EVERYTHING they are... you are.. who they've been- who they've been with... EVERYTHING they are and you are... become ONE.
If they are out of balance within themselves... that will be mixed into your own energy field. EASY to balance and release if you know yourself and can CENTER within yourself quickly... thereby extending the "healing" not only in your own aura... but in the aura of your sexual partner... even when they are gone from your presence.
In this way- every SEXUAL experience (whether you may have thought it was good or bad in the past) is TRUTHFULLY a SPIRITUAL ATTUNEMENT to higher frequencies and levels of BEING.
AND... the most important piece of this ALL... is that the SEXUAL Experience is ENGAGED in with LOVE- unrefined, unshackled, unbridled, unconditional AUTHENTIC LOVE- because the POWER of REAL LOVE... balances EVERYTHING and EVERYONE regardless the past or imbalance that was created.
~ktjo Drum Circle Goddess